A Stó:lō Women’s Movement

About Stolo Womens Group Story History

Our Story

Life givers of our nation.

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Weaving the story of the Stó:lō Nation.

Stolo Womens Community BC Canada

At our inaugural gathering in September of 2018, we were encouraged by Rena Point Bolton, an original member of the Indian Homemakers Association, to pick up where they had left off, reminding us that they hadn’t worked as hard as they did for us to let it all go. “You’ve got what you need, so get back to it,” Rena told us. She was right of course, we had all that we needed and it was our honour to continue the work of our Matriarchs. 

The message we received from our speakers and each other at this inaugural event was clear: Stó:lō womxn want to be organised and to bring forth our old ways. We acknowledged ourselves— Daughters, Sisters, Mothers, Grandmothers, and Aunties—as the strength of our families and communities, and as such, we acknowledge our rightful place in upholding the rights of our people. In 2021, Thélá:ylexw awtxw Foundation—a name given to us by the language speakers Ethel Gardner and Wendy Ritchie—was officially registered as a non-profit organisation with the intention of meeting these self-identified needs of Stó:lō womxn. 

We are the Life Givers of our Nation and the weavers of our social fabric. Through our community events, we connect with ourselves, our customs and our ancestors; we celebrate our culture as Stó:lō womxn; and we collaborate with one another to weave a strong social fabric for our Nation through advocacy for positive social change.

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Our ancestral lands.

As “People of the River” our ancestral home extends along the Fraser River to the Fraser Canyon, from approximately Qw’ó:ntl’an (Kwantlen)to (Yale) in the Fraser Valley. Stó:lō people have lived on this land for 10,000 years. As the first inhabitants, many of our traditions and heritage are connected to these lands. It is our home and we are its caretakers.

Our Vision

Xwelmexwelh Tó:lmel

Sharing Our History, Writing Our Future

Our Mothers and Grandmothers before us have worked hard to preserve our culture and language. 

Thélá:ylexw awtxw Foundation exists to continue the work of the Matriarchs before us, build new momentum by providing opportunities for Stó:lō womxn to gather so we may share our knowledge and good work with one another, to uphold our traditions and our language.  By doing this, we continue the fight against the negative impacts of colonisation, and bring prosperity back to our families and communities.  In order to take care of our people, we must also take care of ourselves. Too often, we leave this work on the back burner – until we are burnt out.  That is the other half of our mission—to provide space for Stó:lō womxn to gather in community and offer support and nurturing.

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About Community Stolo Indigenous Women Group Support

Together We Thrive

Xólhmet mekw’ewát it kwelá

Stolo Womens Group Indigenous Leaders Social Change

Caring for ourselves, caring for our community.

Taking care of ourselves—our physical, emotional and spiritual needs—allows us to take on our roles as Life Givers in our community. As Aunties, Mothers and Grandmothers, taking care of our people is what we do, but we can only give what we have. Taking care of ourselves, takes care of others. This community exists to support one another. When we band together, we are able to accomplish even more than what any one of us can do on our own. From creating social change that positively affects our people, to preserving our traditions and heritage, together is how we thrive.

Our Staff

Máqwelhót -Leslie Bonshor

Leslie is one of the founding members of Thélá:lexw awtxw and the board’s chairperson. She is from Stó:lō Nation, specifically the Ch’íyáqtel community, as well as the Nooksack Indian Tribe. She is a Grandmother, Mother, Auntie, Sister and friend; she was taught early on that womxn are the heartbeat of our Nation, and the strength of the culture and community. The womxn hold the responsibility to learn and teach the ones that are following in their footsteps. Leslie continues to advocate for Indigenous womxn’s voices to be included in all discussions and decisions that affect our families and communities. She looks for every opportunity to empower and encourage womxn to take their rightful place at the table – while Thélá:lexw awtxw sets our own table to continue the work laid out by the Indian Homemakers Association and the Stó:lō women before us.

Éyem Shxwelí Shlá:lí – Melody Andrews

My parents are the late Audrey Kelly and Roger Andrews both of Shxw’ōwhámél. I am a mother of 5 children a grandmother to one and fostered three children throughout the years. I worked in business administration for 30 years and Indigenous Governance for the past 25 years. My passion is working with Indigenous communities and assisting however I can. I just started working with Thélá:lexw axwt Foundation in July 2024 and I’m very excited to see the work Stó:lō women are about to embark on and develop more connections with the 24 communities and members within Stó:lō territory.

Á’a:líya Warbus

Á’a:líya Warbus is an Indigenous film maker and content creator from the Stó:lō Nation. Her grandparents connect her to the communities of Musqueam, Sumas, Skowlitz, Chehalis and Skowkale First Nation, where she grew up. She operates her own business in media and film called Salish Legends Media. She has 3 children ages 14, 11, and 4 and extensive family relations all throughout Coast Salish Territory. Á’a:líya is thrilled to work with Matriarchs in Stó:lō territory to tap into the innate and powerful knowledge that urgently needs to be recorded and shared, to uplift not only our women but the community as a whole, because women have always been a driving force for all change and governance, it’s time we return to the ways of our ancestors and thrive!